Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Self-Assessment

This quiz helps you understand your emotional intelligence across five key areas: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills.

Please read each statement and select how accurately it describes you. Be honest with yourself for the most accurate reflection.

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1. I can easily name the emotions I'm feeling at any given moment.

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2. When I'm upset, I can calm myself down without lashing out.

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3. I can sense when someone is uncomfortable in a conversation.

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4. I am good at giving constructive feedback without offending others.

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5. I set personal goals and feel motivated to achieve them.

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6. I can admit when I'm wrong and apologize sincerely.

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7. I listen attentively without interrupting or planning my response.

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8. I am comfortable expressing my feelings to friends or partners.

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9. I can adapt my communication style to different people.

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10. I stay calm under pressure and think clearly in crises.

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11. I can recognize when I'm being defensive and adjust my attitude.

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12. I am good at reading body language and nonverbal cues.

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13. I am able to inspire and motivate others.

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14. I can handle criticism without taking it personally.

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15. I often consider how my actions affect others.

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16. I am good at resolving conflicts between people.

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17. I can delay gratification to achieve long-term goals.

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18. I feel empathy for people going through difficult times.

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19. I am open to feedback and willing to change.

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20. I can maintain a positive outlook even during setbacks.

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21. I am comfortable with silence in conversations.

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22. I can recognize when I'm stressed and take steps to manage it.

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23. I am good at building rapport with new people.

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24. I can express disagreement respectfully.

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25. I am aware of my emotional triggers.

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26. I can celebrate others' successes without envy.

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27. I am good at setting and maintaining healthy boundaries.

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28. I can ask for help when I need it.

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29. I can forgive others and let go of grudges.

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30. I am comfortable with vulnerability in close relationships.

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31. I can adapt to unexpected changes in plans.

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32. I can give compliments genuinely and specifically.

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33. I can recognize when I'm projecting my feelings onto others.

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34. I am good at team collaboration and sharing credit.

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35. I can accept compliments graciously.

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36. I can sense group dynamics and adjust accordingly.

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37. I am aware of my biases and work to overcome them.

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38. I can navigate office politics without compromising my values.

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39. I can express gratitude regularly and meaningfully.

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40. I can recognize when someone needs space versus support.

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41. I can manage my time effectively to reduce stress.

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42. I am good at de-escalating tense situations.

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43. I can laugh at myself and not take myself too seriously.

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44. I can balance logic and emotion in decision-making.

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45. I am comfortable with multicultural interactions.

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46. I can recognize and avoid emotional manipulation.

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47. I can maintain healthy work-life boundaries.

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48. I can express my needs clearly without being aggressive.

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49. I can stay present in conversations without distraction.

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50. I continuously seek to grow emotionally and relationally.

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