Am I Aromantic? Self-Assessment Quiz

This quiz helps you explore your romantic orientation and consider whether you might be aromantic

Please read each question carefully and select the answer that best describes your feelings and experiences. Remember this is for self-reflection only and not a diagnostic tool.

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1. How often do you experience romantic attraction to others?

Frequently, I develop crushes regularly

Occasionally, but it's rare

Very rarely, maybe once or twice in my life

Never, I don't experience romantic attraction

2. When you think about romantic relationships, how do you feel?

Excited and eager to be in one

Neutral, it's not a priority

Confused about why people want them

Indifferent or repulsed by the idea

3. How do you feel about dating and romance in media (movies, books, etc.)?

I enjoy it and find it relatable

It's fine, but not my favorite part

I often find it boring or unnecessary

I actively avoid romantic content

4. Do you understand what romantic love feels like?

Yes, completely

Mostly, but sometimes I'm unsure

I'm confused about the difference between romantic and platonic love

No, it's a complete mystery to me

5. How important is having a romantic partner to you?

Very important, I want to find a life partner

Somewhat important, but not essential

Not important, I'm fine without one

I actively prefer being single

6. When friends talk about their crushes or relationships, how do you relate?

I completely understand and share similar experiences

I understand but don't have much to contribute

I feel like I'm missing something they all understand

I feel completely alienated from these conversations

7. Have you ever felt pressure to be in a romantic relationship?

No, it's always been my personal choice

Sometimes, from society or family

Often, I feel like I should want romance

Constantly, I have to pretend to understand romance

8. How do you feel about traditional romantic gestures (flowers, dates, etc.)?

I enjoy giving and receiving them

They're nice but not necessary

I find them awkward or confusing

I actively dislike romantic gestures

9. Can you distinguish between platonic and romantic attraction?

Yes, clearly and easily

Mostly, but sometimes I'm uncertain

Rarely, they often feel the same to me

No, I don't understand the difference

10. How do you envision your ideal future?

With a romantic partner and possibly family

Open to romance but not required

Focused on friendships and personal goals

Definitely without romantic partnership

11. Do you experience aesthetic attraction (finding people beautiful)?

Yes, and it often leads to romantic feelings

Yes, but it stays separate from romance

Yes, but I've never wanted to date people I find attractive

Rarely or never notice physical beauty in that way

12. How do you feel about the concept of "soulmates" or "the one"?

I believe in it and want to find my person

It's a nice idea but not realistic

I don't understand the concept

I find the concept limiting or unappealing

13. Have you ever been in a romantic relationship?

Yes, and I enjoyed it

Yes, but I felt indifferent or uncomfortable

Tried it but felt like I was pretending

Never been in one and never wanted to

14. How do you experience deep emotional connections?

Primarily through romantic relationships

Through both romantic and platonic relationships

Almost exclusively through close friendships

I form deep bonds but they're never romantic

15. Do you feel like you're "broken" or missing something when others talk about romance?

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

16. How would you describe your interest in marriage?

I definitely want to get married

I'm open to it but not sure

I prefer alternative commitment structures

I have no interest in marriage

17. When you imagine a perfect partnership, what does it include?

Traditional romance and intimacy

Romance mixed with deep friendship

A queerplatonic or non-romantic life partnership

No partnership - complete independence

18. How do you feel about Valentine's Day?

I enjoy celebrating it

It's just another day

I find it confusing or performative

I actively dislike the holiday

19. Have you ever questioned your romantic orientation before?

No, I've always been sure

Briefly, but not seriously

Yes, I've been questioning for a while

Constantly, it's been on my mind a lot

20. How do you feel about the possibility of being aromantic?

It doesn't resonate with me at all

I'm curious but uncertain

It feels like it might explain my experiences

It feels like an accurate description of me