感觉跟老公沟通不起来心好累

1、如果你只是对你老公个人失望想离婚的话，建议先不要冲动离婚，最好可以找对方认真的沟通，因为对方可能还不了解你提出离婚的原因。所以说可以先进行沟通，说出你对你老公不满的地方，让你老公知道你对他的期望，并且让他做出改变，这样或许能够恢复你们之间的感情。例如你觉得你老公不够体贴、不顾家、不做家务，或者是太老实窝囊，那么你可以选择先跟他沟通，说出他的问题所在并逐步改变他。

2、另外，我觉得有当你觉得两个人沟通很累的时候，往往可能是对方不愿意配合你的沟通，这个时候就不要勉强了，给对方一点空间吧。

3、      我是独语，世界和我爱着你。

4、同时应该要检讨一下自己，对方为什么不愿意配合沟通？找出问题，再对症下药。

5、如果你是因为两人有矛盾或者家庭矛盾等想离婚的，那么可以尝试主动和对方沟通，袒露心声，进而解决矛盾的根源。比如因婆媳关系不和，闹矛盾的时候，那可以跟老公和公婆进行有效的沟通交流，从而解决矛盾，或者跟公婆分开居住，这样夫妻感情也不受影响了。

6、angway，学会好好说话很重要，如果彼此说话让人感觉舒服了，自然就不会出现沟通很累的情况了。

7、我会回忆我们相处的点点滴滴，以前关系好的时候，我们如胶似漆，睡觉都要抱在一起。那时的我总是在心里告诉自己，何其幸运找到了他。

8、找出原因并解决：一般女人不会无缘无故提出离婚，因此找个时间和对方谈谈，了解原因并找解决方法，这样更有几率能挽回对方。

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10、你可以爱干净，但这个干净在家里的定义要有所区分。

11、如果跟你老公无法沟通或者沟通后无效，那也不要一时冲动就离婚，毕竟离婚后不一定能够复婚。你可以尝试换位思考，各自做出让步，这样也许能够解决你们夫妻之间的矛盾，恢复你们的感情。

12、你爸妈在给你们带孩子。

13、小孩崽子才需要他妈哄呢，男人就要主动哄老婆开心，既能显示自己的大度，又能在心理上压制对方，我不哄你吵架就不结束。时间完全掌控在自己手里。

14、      你不说，他不问，只是冷漠和不语，这样问题永远就是一种死循环，到再遇到这样的问题，依然还是这种局面，让人压抑，难受，憋屈。

15、老公是极理性的人，为了赚钱经常早出晚归。

16、明确表达自己内心的想法：当老婆提出离婚的情况下，作为老公明确地告诉老婆自己的心里想法和感受，明确告诉对方自己不想离婚，不想家庭破裂，让她内心动摇，然后争取挽回她。

17、他还需要认识到每个人的生活轨迹决定了他的生活方式，应当得到理解和尊重。

18、当然，如果是你老公有错在先且是重大过错，例如有婚外情、实施家暴、虐待家人等，甚至有吸毒、赌博、酗酒等恶习且屡教不改的情况下，那么这已经严重危害婚姻幸福了，没有继续维持婚姻的必要，因为在一起对你来说是煎熬，不如早点离婚更加轻松。

19、      无论在外面，还是在家里，都希望你能真实的做自己，也能真实的说心里话。

20、控制好自己的情绪：当对方主动提出离婚时，说明对你已经存在不满或者两人之间积攒了很多的矛盾，所以这个时候你必须要控制好自己的情绪，不要再跟对方争吵而激怒对方，然后再想办法挽回。

21、后悔没有早点离，但是，我是活该，有了孩子了，我把人生的路走得很糟糕。

22、一个爱干净的男人，本来是一件令人讨喜的事情。但这种定义在外人与在家里应该有准确人尺度，在外人面前，你可以通过你的言谈，你的举止，你的穿着等等，可以把自己爱干净的一面表达的淋漓尽致，这都无可厚非。而在家里，这种干净，不是你自己干净就是干净，而是你要通过你的这个优点，把这个家收拾的很干净。只有家干净了，才是真的干净。你有爱干净的优点，不能在家里要求所有人都要跟你一样，在外面，包括在一个办公室里，你也做不到去要求别人跟你一样，为何在家里就有如此的要求？在外面别人的不干净，你可以容忍，为何一旦变成自己的至亲，反而就不想宽容？难道，亲人还比不过一个外人？

23、也许是区域性质有关，在我们这里爷爷奶奶看孩子，似乎已经成为一种常态，而姥姥姥爷看孩子，在更多人眼里，似乎只是一种帮衬。帮你看是情份，真不帮你看，那也是本份。出现今天这种情况，我想你并未跟你的老公这样坦诚布公的交流过。

24、换做以前吵架冷战，我会特别抓狂，整个人会奔溃。而现在，确实平静了许多。

25、独语 累计帮助了322人

26、他需要带一天孩子，认识到一个妈妈不是每天有大把空闲时间。

27、大江东去 累计帮助了807人

28、迅速改变自己：如果平时有一些不好的坏习惯，比如不顾家、不够体贴等等，那就要改掉这些坏习惯，同时多换位思考和关心对方，让对方充分感受到你的感情，说不定还有一些转机。