Am I Lesbian? Sexual Orientation Self-Exploration Quiz

This quiz helps women explore their sexual orientation and understand their feelings of attraction to other women in a safe, non-judgmental way.

Please select the option that best reflects your true feelings and experiences. This is for self-exploration only and not a definitive label.

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1. When you think about romantic or sexual attraction, do you find yourself primarily drawn to women?

I am consistently drawn to women

I am sometimes drawn to women

I am rarely drawn to women

I am not drawn to women

2. How often do you experience romantic feelings for women?

Very frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

3. Have you ever had a romantic or sexual relationship with a woman?

Yes, multiple times

Yes, once

No, but I've had crushes

No, I haven't

4. How do you feel when you see attractive women?

I feel a strong attraction

I feel some interest

I feel neutral

I don't feel anything

5. Do you consider yourself to be lesbian, bisexual, or something else?

I identify as lesbian

I identify as bisexual

I'm unsure

I don't identify as lesbian

6. When you imagine a future partner, do you picture someone of the same gender?

Yes, I always picture a woman

Sometimes I picture a woman

I picture a man

I don't picture a specific gender

7. How do you feel about the idea of a relationship with a woman?

Very positive and excited

Positive, but not sure

Neutral

Negative

8. Have you ever felt different from your peers in terms of who you're attracted to?

Yes, often

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

9. Do you find yourself fantasizing about women in a romantic or sexual context?

Yes, frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

10. How comfortable are you with the idea of being openly lesbian?

Very comfortable

Somewhat comfortable

Not very comfortable

Very uncomfortable

11. Do you feel a sense of community or belonging with other lesbian women?

Yes, strongly

Somewhat

Not really

12. How often do you think about your sexual orientation?

Very often

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

13. Have you ever felt confused or uncertain about your sexual orientation?

Yes, often

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

14. How do you feel when you see women in romantic relationships?

I feel happy for them and want that

I feel neutral

I feel indifferent

I feel negative

15. Do you feel that your attraction to women is a significant part of your identity?

Yes, very much so

Somewhat

Not really