Gay Purity Test – What's Your Score?

Take this gay purity test to see your score based on real dating, flirting, emotional, and relationship experiences.

Please answer each question honestly based on your real-life experiences. This quiz is designed for entertainment and self-reflection only. Higher scores indicate a higher level of innocence or less experience, while lower scores suggest more experience.

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1. How much experience do you have flirting with another man in person?

A lot, it feels natural to me
Some, though I still get nervous
Very little
None at all

2. Have you ever had a crush on another man that you acted on?

Yes, several times
Yes, once or twice
I have had crushes, but never acted on them
No, not really

3. What best describes your experience using gay dating apps?

I have used them regularly
I have tried them a few times
I have considered it but never really used them
I have never used any

4. Have you ever gone on a date with another man?

Yes, many times
Yes, once or twice
We spent one-on-one time that felt date-like, but it was never clearly a date
No

5. How experienced are you with showing romantic interest toward another man?

Very experienced
Somewhat experienced
Mostly unsure how to do it
Not experienced at all

6. Have you ever been in a mutual romantic situation with another man?

Yes, more than once
Yes, once
There was clear interest or tension, but it never became openly mutual
No

7. Have you ever initiated a conversation with a man because you were attracted to him?

Yes, many times
Yes, once or twice
Only indirectly or very awkwardly
No, never

8. How much experience do you have with same-sex affection in a romantic context?

A lot
Some
Very little
None

9. Have you ever told another man directly that you liked him?

Yes, several times
Yes, once
Only hinted at it
No

10. What best describes your relationship experience with other men?

I have had more than one relationship
I have had one relationship
I have had talking stages or almost-relationships
No relationship experience

11. Have you ever been approached by another man in a clearly romantic or flirtatious way?

Yes, many times
Yes, once or twice
Someone may have shown interest, but it stayed ambiguous
No

12. Have you ever had a meaningful late-night conversation with another man because there was romantic tension?

Yes, several times
Yes, once or twice
We had a personal or emotionally charged conversation, but the romantic tension stayed unclear
No

13. How much real-world experience do you have exploring gay dating beyond fantasy or curiosity?

A lot of real-world experience
Some real-world experience
Mostly curiosity, not much actual experience
No real-world experience

14. Have you ever introduced a man you liked or dated to friends as more than just a friend?

Yes, comfortably
Yes, but only in limited situations
Almost, but I kept it vague
No

15. What best describes your experience with developing emotional closeness with another man you were attracted to?

I have experienced that more than once
I have experienced it once
I have come close, but it stayed uncertain
I have not experienced that

16. Have you ever exchanged numbers or social media with a man because there was mutual interest?

Yes, many times
Yes, once or twice
Almost, but it never happened
No

17. Have you ever planned to meet up with another man mainly because you were attracted to him?

Yes, several times
Yes, once or twice
I considered it, but never followed through
No

18. Have you ever had a clearly defined talking stage with another man?

Yes, more than once
Yes, once
We were talking in that direction, but it never became a clear talking stage
No

19. Have you ever had a first kiss or kiss-like romantic moment with another man?

Yes, more than once
Yes, once
Almost, but it did not happen
No

20. Have you ever gone somewhere together with another man in a way that felt obviously date-like?

Yes, several times
Yes, once or twice
We spent time together one-on-one in a way that hinted at a date, but it was never clearly one
No

21. Have you ever stayed up thinking intensely about whether another man liked you back?

Yes, many times
Yes, once or twice
Only vaguely or briefly
No

22. Have you ever had a moment with another man that felt like a near-confession of mutual feelings?

Yes, more than once
We more or less made our feelings clear once
The moment strongly hinted at mutual feelings, but neither of us clearly said it
No

23. Have you ever had a man clearly know you liked him, or you clearly knew he liked you?

Yes, several times
Yes, once or twice
Only in a very ambiguous way
No

24. Overall, how much actual gay dating or romantic experience do you feel you have had so far?

A lot
A fair amount
Only a little
Almost none